I love flying. The excitement of the take off, knowing I'm going somewhere exciting and the fun of the landing. We're getting married in Hawaii later this year. We'd spoken about going overseas to Fiji or Hawaii and nothing had been said by Mr's parents. We announced Hawaii as our wedding location. We made plans and bookings. Then Mr's parents had their daughter-in-law tell me on facebook that they aren't coming. They hadn't bothered to tell Mr. Mr spoke to his Mum briefly yesterday and apparently she is scared of flying. This woman has flown across Australia a few times. Could someone with an unbiased mind please explain to me why she is doing this? Is it the ocean? I'm taking it rather personally right now and would love an explanation.