I've posted about this previously but this is becoming all too common place when sitting in coach. There was a time when the FAs new if an EXP was sitting in coach. They would usually greet you by name, offer you a cocktail at no charge, and even some of their yummy food... However, over the last few months, none of this has happened on at least 5 flights, including 263 (IAD-LAX) today. Not only was I asked to pay for my cocktail, but after I identified myself as an EXP and showed the FA my boarding pass, I was told I would have to pay for the mixed nuts I requested.... So my question to the wise men and women of the board, and especially, Destination David, what should my expectations be as an EXP traveling in Y? Am I asking for too much? Was I previously spoiled by the few FAs that actually cared about those of us that fly regularly for work? I would really like to hear from others about their expectations.